trouwen!

Een persoon waar ik veel om geef en veel heeft moeten doorstaan kondigde me aan dat ze gaat trouwen dus bij deze gelegenheid wil ik het over trouwerij hebben!

Trouwen kan altijd op welke leeeftijd je ook bent kan altijd nog bestaat geen leeftijdgrens net zo als echte liefde die kend ook geen leeftijd! ;)
of je nou 1x trouwt of 6x het is en blijft een feest!
zodra ik aan bruiloften denk zie ik al alles helemaal voor me taart zoeken bruidsjurk passen muziek zoeken zaal huren en alles er op en er aaaaan niks Jolanda en Wesley neee ik kan miss niet veel geld in stoppen maar met weinig geld kan ook super leuk worden! het enige recept is mensen om wie je geeft en om je geven erbij en voila klaaar feeest kan beginnen of trouwerij nou in toscane is of gemeente huis, er word getrouwt en komt feest erna! er bestaat geen perfecte bruiloft het perfecte ervan is dat jij diegene die trouwt de mensen om wie je geeft om je heen hebt!

shopping therapy - shopaholic

I was thinking for hours what to write on my blog because i didnt had inspiration.
while I was thinking about what topic I could write,
I also was talking to my friend about tomorrow, our shopping day.
So I just came to the conclusion I should write about that!
Our plan was to go last week but yeah the night before we were at the clubs dancing and having fun.
But going to bed at 4o'clock and stand up at 6.00am to get the bus at 6.30am isn't such a good idea!
Tonight we're going to bed early stand up earlier and prepare us for a great day!
Some people call it shopping therapy, and I must confess I do also.
In my article ill explain why i named it shopping therapy :)
And not only about shopping therapy because if you have to much shopping therapy it doesn't
help anymore than you'll become an shopaholic so sit down and enjoy reading!!!

Many people especially women have some days they don't feel well,
there are a lot of reasons, some went wrong at work, had a fight with your friend/husband/boyfriend or just having a bad day!
Now girls someone invent the shopping therapy! Yeah now I am talking your language girls!
Not feeling well but you're in a amazing department store with your credit card just trying new clothes on seeing al those new collections make you feel a lot better,
the truth is that shopping doesn't really help it's just an escape from the reality for a while.
Shopping is nice and every girl love to do it, even if you have no money just walking into the shops see those colors the new stuff en fashion is making the world a better place, isn't that the thoughts you make walking into a shop? Yeah I thought so!!
Anyway, shopping is nice make you feel good and forget your problems for a while that is the reason we call it therapy, but what happens if you make shopping an obsession just to feel better? You become a shopaholic! That is exactly what I want to talk about now!

''Rebecca Bloomwood is a shopping addict who lives with her best friend Suze. Currently, she works as a journalist for a gardening magazine but dreams to join the fashion magazine Alette. One day, she secures an interview with the magazine. On the way to the interview, she sees a green scarf and decides to buy it. Her credit card is declined, so Rebecca races to the nearest hot dog stand, offering to buy all the hot dogs if the seller gives her back change in cash and saying it is a gift for her sick aunt. Finally a man offers her $20. When Rebecca gets to the interview she's told that someone has got the position, but by joining another magazine, she might make it to Alette. The receptionist tells her there is a position in the magazine "Successful Savings".
When she interviews with Luke Brandon, the editor of Successful Savings, she realizes he is the manwho loaned her $20. While he talks on the phone, she hides her scarf outside his office. The interview doesn't go well and she tries to distract him without success. Luke's assistant comes into the room and tells Rebecca that she dropped her scarf. Rebecca knows her game is up and leaves.
She and Suze write drunken letters to Alette and Successful Saving, but she sends each to the wrong magazine. Nevertheless, Luke Brandon hires her. Rather than completing a work assignment, she goes to a clothing sale. While examining some cashmere gloves, she realizes that the gloves are not fully cashmere, and gives her inspiration for her column, calling herself "the Girl in the Green Scarf." The column is an instant success worldwide. Meanwhile, Rebecca tells everyone that her debt collector, Derek Smeath, is her stalker. Luke invites her to a conference and a ball. In the conference, she impresses a couple of CEOs who promise to give advertisement contracts to Successful Savings. At a restaurant Alicia, asks Luke to the ball, leaving Rebecca feeling dejected.
Rebecca returns home to confrontations with Derek Smeath, so Suze makes her join Shopaholics Anonymous. The class leader, Miss Korch, forces her to donate all the clothes she just bought, including her bridesmaid's dress for Suze's wedding and a dress for a TV interview. She offers to buy back both dresses from the charity store, but can only afford one, and buys the TV interview dress. During her live TV interview, Rebecca is publicly accused of not paying her debts by Smeath, and loses her job. Suze is angry when she finds out that Rebecca sold her bridesmaid dress.
Rebecca is then at her parents house when Alette herself appears to offer her a position at the magazine. While this had been Rebecca's dream, she declines, thinking this would be another mistake. She then sells most of her clothes to pay off her debts. Meanwhile, Luke rejects the offer for his own magazine and opens up a new company, Brandon Communications.
Rebecca's sale is a success, making it possible for her to pay her debts. Rebecca then gives her payment to her credit collector Derek Smeath. Rebecca attends Suze's wedding, after reclaiming her bridesmaid dress from the woman who had gotten it from the store. Suze forgives her. Rebecca and Luke meet again, and Luke returns the green scarf after revealing that he was the person who had bought it as the auction. Rebecca ends up working for Luke's new magazine and being in a relationship with him.''

But that is just a movie! In real life things like that don't happen! The point is that she became an shopaholic,
the movie is about how she get out of that situation and not how she get herself into it!
I guess every women has deep in her a shopaholic, but the thing is to keep it inside!
The moment youre shopping you really feel great maybe the days after too but in a while youll feel down again and so start shopping to get back that great feeling.

Ok celebrities they have personal shoppers but that isn’t a nice work believe me,
I know it's sounds great to be all day into department stores go with your (celebrity) boss to party's buy the most expensive and fabulous clothes,
but with the time it's getting bored to be all day in department stores to find that amazing dress your boss wants to wear at the garden party,
it sounds stupid but really there are some celebrities who really do that.
Why not just wearing your jeans? It's not a premiere! Anyway that is not the subject we were talking about will leave it for next time this one ''spoiled Celebrities''
I like that for my next article!!
An hour ago I was nagging I had no inspiration and look what I wrote now!
I hope you enjoyed my article and if you have some ideas for an article just leave a note and tell me!
I really enjoy writing for you guys!

I can't change who I am

You can't chance who you are! You even can't control what is happening around you, but you can control what it's doing with you! The things that happens in life are the things who make the person! Wrong, bad or good, the desicion is yours, you are the one who live with it, so stop listening to everyone else and start listening to your own voice! The voice inside you knows what do to.!

G. 21-03-2002

One photo million words!!!

Losing someone you care about is the key to your strength, the strenght you need to go on with your life without that person! I dont mean with losing that someone died you can have different types of losing, you can lose a lover, a friend, or even your own child, they just can turned their back on you! Everyone is strong inside them, some people mopre than others, but losing someone open the door to your strength or even if someone you care about has lost someone your dooor is open too, to help the person you care about!

This little boy may be an angel and be so small but even he isn't around the people he care about so they can see him, he is around them like an guardian angel! It's maybe a kinda weird idea that you have a guardian angel on your shoulder but it's true, some people can see them some others can feel their presence. I'm serious now! Think about all the times you got lucky, like when you are walking on the street and almost hit by a car, that isn't luck it's your guardian angel who is looking after you! It's your own desicion if you are a believer or not, I just wanted to tell my opppinion and what this picture say to me.

I hope you enjoy reading my blog..!!

The girl who made the difference

Once there was a girl, she was alive but not feeling she was, she had the feeling that her parents wrote the story of her life! One day she took the decision to be the own writer of her life and start packing her stuff, she packed it all and left everything behind, but also she left for each member of the family a letter! In that letter she tried to explain the way how she felt so long and she needed to do this... She needs just to get out and she knows that they wouldn't agree with her so she just left!

While she was sitting in the bus on her way to the airport she was thinking about everything she was leaving behind! And not just her Family but Friends also, Friends she hopes they would understand her that she needed to do this for herself, Friends she hoped she would never lose them for real! And then she thought the Friends who really cared about her would understand her and what she is going through and that they wouldn't disappear out of her life, No the Friends who really care would stand by her side no matter how far she would go no matter what happens!

Her biggest worry was if she was strong enough to get used to a new home, to meet new people, start her own life and that all without her Family by her side. By the time the bus almost arrived at the airport she wished that her Family would be proud of her some day and could look at her not like the daughter/sister who left but like the daughter/sister who started her own life, like the girl who had some dreams and made them all come true!

Maybe she was a dreamer and of course she had a lot of dreams but she was determined to let her dreams come true! She knew it wouldn't be easy but she also knew if she could do that she could do anything!

The girl just got into the airport, checked in and started to walk in to the gate...! She was sitting there in the hall watching at the airplanes that took-off and came back, thinking that in a bit she would be leaving from there to in such a huge airplane... She was afraid to leave everything behind now the moment to leave was coming but she also felt exciting, exciting that she would have the opportunity to start a new life, to write her own story..! While the airplane took-off she felt more and more exciting by the idea she left home, but also afraid that she couldn't handle it, that she couldn't write on her own her life story but that she needs her Family to guide her! The moment the airplane landed she knew that she would handle it all and finally understood that her biggest fear was leaving home and get away from her parental nest, she already left it behind, and she defied already her biggest fear so everything else would be fine too!

The girl grew up as a beautiful independent young woman, she knew how to defied her biggest fears, she learned to handle things on her own, to give the stuff what happened in her life a place and find herself again!

When she started her own Family and her children grow up and they were at the age to let them go and to spread their wings out she finally understood the fears of her own parents to let her go. She also knew that she didn't want to make the same mistakes so she let her children go but before they left she said to them:

''Don’t ever forget that I will always be here for you no matter what happens no matter why you need me I will be always there! Now go write you own story and be careful I love you''

With that words her children left and by the time her children started a Family of their own and they were at the age to leave home that said exactly the same thing they mother told them when they were young! So that young girl who decided one day to make the difference and leave home was a old woman now and she knew she did not have much time anymore her last thought was that she made the difference and that her children learn it to their children and she knew that they will pass it by to each generation of her Family!

So you can see that with one simple thing you can change a whole generation and give them a better life!

Megan foxx tattoo!

There once was a little girl

who never knew love

untill a boy broke her

HEART!!

pack you stuff and get the hell out of here!

Ever had the strange feeling you just want to pack your stuff and get the hell out of here?

Well, that feeling I have right now!

Life is just getting worser and worser...I can't even express my feeling anymore on paper..Lost my talent or thought I had a talent to write my feelings down!

Few days ago I wasn't feeling so well, and my parent send me down to our appartment so I could clean it...I just put on my ipod full volumeee and start dancing! Dancing is also a way to express your feelings, your anger, and just feel better after rocking out on the music!

inspired in bad angry sad mood!

lill more time and then I will fly...fly away from you just like a butterfly!!!!

I am done with it its over now!!!!!! tired of lies and cover your lies with others lies for once tell the truth face it and let me go!!!

I hate those rumors!!!! just wanna leave from here leave it all behind me and stand on my own legs!!! make my own mistakes and grow up on my own!!!! tired of lies and covering lies with other lies!!!! just wanna face the truth and leave!!! fly like a butterfly!

If you want to do something and you know it isnt wrong but it still feels in some way wrong you feel like you betrayal an other person you care about what do you do? Life is difficult and even more with secrets, secrets that need to come out!!! Everyone has his secrets one person more than the other but everyone need that other person next to him so he can share his secret, keeping it inside is the wurst thing you could do you need to get it out even shout it out loud if you have that chance or write it down but never keep it inside you share it with someone even only one person you will feel much better…

The big meaning of love (to my mom made by me)

Did you ever had that feeling when you see a person that your heart will jump out your chest? It’s weird but that is what they call falling for that person…

As I have said before Love is a big word but still love is the greatest thing in the world that can happen to someone! all differents types of love specially the love for your child..

the child you carried for 9 months in you

the child you was so exited about from the moment you first heard his heart beat

you was even more exited about at the moment you felt it for the very first time kicking in you

In that 9 months you totally fell in love with your own child and you even loved it more the moment you first saw it and heard it cry that is the biggest love a human being can feel

There is no bigger love than a mother can love her child, the child she carried for 9 months in her

A mother never stop loving her child no matter what the child did

If the mother can’t take care of her child and she need to give it away even than she still love it, because all the things a mother do is for the goodness of her child even the bad things

There are just two things a mother want for her child, she want her child to be happy and healthy

We as children can’t understand that kind of love,

But one day, the day we are going to be a mother on our own

we will understand the big meaning of LOVE!!!

mom I finally understand some things you do and I just wanted to tell that I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

xoxo

your daughter D.

Dreaming with open eyes (made by me)

I’m starring out the window

wondering what would happen

if I could wish what I wanted

i would wish that I could

finally live my life the way I want

I’m tired to do everything with your rules

I wanna make my own rules

and break them on my own

Let me live and make my own mistakes!

But that is still a dream

a dream I hope some day

I will make come true

Because now I’m just dreaming

DREAMING WITH OPEN EYES

I’m thinking of a peacefull island

somewhere I can do whatever I want

and live my dream out loud

And here I’m again at the same window

starring outside and wish things where different

I have people around me

people I trust

But no one really understands me

It’s like I’m on my own

living in a world full

of your rules

with no escape…

Love

Liefde is een groot woord

Liefde kan veel meningen hebben

je kan je huisdier lief hebben,

je broer, je zus,

je kan je familie lief hebben

Maar het belangrijkste van alle is

jezelf lief te hebben

Als je van jezelf houd

kunnen ook andere

van je houden!

Engelse versie (originele)

Love is a big word

Love can mean a lot

you can love your pet,

your brother, your sister

you can love your family

But the most important thing is

to love yourself

Maybe it sounds selfish

but it is the truth

If you love yourself

than people can love you back!

dit stukje heb ik zelf geschreven

MAMA

Ik was op een dag gewoon beetje aan surfen op internet en las dit prachtige en mooi geschreven verhaal hoop dat jullie en net zo mooi als mij vinden ;)

“Waarom huil je Mama?”
vroeg een jongetje aan zijn moeder.
Omdat ik een vrouw ben.
“antwoordde zij”.
Ik begrijp het niet,
“zei het jongetje weer”.
Zijn moeder knuffelde hem en zei met een vage lach:
En dat zul je ook nooit doen lieve kind, maar dat maakt niet uit.”
Later vroeg de kleine jongen aan zijn vader:
“Papa, waarom huilt Mama zomaar zonder reden?”
Zijn vader kon alleen maar antwoorden:
“Alle vrouwen huilen zonder reden.”
De kleine jongen groeide op en werd een jonge man,
zich nog steeds afvragend,
waarom vrouwen huilen.
Uiteindelijk riep hij de hulp in van God en vroeg ook Hem:
“God, waarom huilen vrouwen?”
God antwoordde het volgende:
“Toen ik de vrouw schiep,
besloot ik dat ze speciaal moest zijn.
Ik gaf haar schouders,
sterk genoeg om het leed van de wereld te dragen,
maar ook zachte armen om comfort te bieden.
Ik gaf haar innerlijke kracht om,
bevallingen te doorstaan en om tegen afwijzing te kunnen,
welke zij vaak zou gaan krijgen,
soms zelfs van haar eigen kinderen.
Ik gaf haar de hardheid,
het doorzettingsvermogen om voor haar vrienden en familie
te kunnen zorgen,
zelfs wanneer iedereen het opgeeft.
Zelfs ziekte en vermoeidheid houden haar dan niet tegen,
en zij klaagt nooit….
Ik gaf haar gevoeligheid,
zodat zij haar kinderen lief zal hebben,
onder welke omstandigheid dan ook.
Zelfs wanneer haar eigen kind haar pijn heeft gedaan.
Ze heeft een speciale gave om kinderen weer te doen lachen,
om tieners te helpen met hun twijfels en angsten.
Ik gaf haar de kracht om voor haar man te zorgen,
ondanks zijn fouten en ik fabriceerde haar uit een rib
van hem om zijn hart te beschermen.
Ik gaf haar de wijsheid,
om te weten dat een goede echtgenoot zijn vrouw nooit pijn zou doen,
maar dat hij haar soms test op haar kracht.
En ook om haar man bij te staan,
door dik en dun.
Voor al dit harde werk,
gaf ik haar ook een traan om te laten.
Het is van haar,
zij kan het gebruiken wanneer zij dat nodig heeft.
Het is haar enige zwakte…..
Wanneer je haar ziet huilen,
zeg haar dan hoeveel je van haar houdt,
en hoe goed de dingen zijn die zij voor anderen doet.
En alhoewel ze dan nog steeds huilt,
weet dan dat ze zich wel degelijk iets beter voelt.
Zij is speciaal…….”